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single is not a status

I don’t know how many of you have ever played video games, but for those who have this post will be much easier to understand.

Why? Because video games have this option of saving a game from time to time and then loading it every time you need. In real life that doesn’t work quite so, but there is a „feature” you can save and to which you can always go back to.


Relationships are like video games: unless you invest in yourself and „SAVE” from time to time, a separation will undoubtedly send you back to zero. And in this case zero is that depression in which you question your value/ values, when you give up all the things you believed in for the impression of a relationship and when nothing around you seems good enough.

Single is not a status!!! Single is  like loading the game! It’s back to yourself and all the things you have built within.

MYSELF comes from a self part that is mine and mine only. It’s that part that I have conquered or discovered, I have shaped and colored, I have improved… We all have the option to choose what we define ourSELVES through. But take my word for it that using a relation for this is not the best or smartest thing you can do.

So…you are not single or in a relationship. YOU are or not WHO YOU ARE! Single/ relationships are just fazes of a life time game!

So SAVE and LOAD until you reach your destination!


„In three words I can sum up everything I’ve learned about life: it goes on.”

Credite Carinei

shreds of light

For lives that hold

a solid ground,

and souls that yell

with silent sound,

I give away

a drop of light

to pour and shine

into the night.

on the art of surviving

To be or not be…it’s a piece of crap! And by this I do not refer to Shakespeare’s work, cause I’m too tired for that, but to the statement that is still considered to be…intriguing.

Well yes, I repeat, intriguing or not, thinking about this is useless. It’s NEVER this simple! It’s never about TO BE or NOT.

BEING is a thing that grows with you, considering how much of a BEING you want/ choose to be.

So BEING comes around your life pretty much like this:

– in childhood you wonder mostly „who are they”/ or „what are they?” or in your early years your main question will be „is this edible?”;

– in teenage it’s all about „who am I?”, even though 99% of the emo kids nowadays live by the question „WHY ME?”;

– in your early youth you are pretty much concerned about what to do with what you may have found out in teenage you were – so it’s a lot about „WHO do I want/ need to become?’

– in your mid-life crisis you doubt everything , you regret a bunch of stuff, you go back to your old habbits that make you think you were younger and then ask yourself „who have I truly become?” or „how did I become this?„;

– and then you’re old and some joke of a human being comes up to you, after all the struggle and questioning, and says : „IT’S ALL ABOUT TO BE OR NOT TO BE!”

If that happens to me when I’m old, I swear to God I throw my walking device into him! Actually, I’ll throw something at the person who says that to me now.

It’s not about saying…to be or not to be!!!! but about saying I want to be, and I’ll just as well give my best to make a difference.

It’s not about the world today!!! It’s about us who make the world today! It’s us who don’t stand by each other’s side cause we have a movie to watch and it’s us who teach our (future) children to guide themselves by money and wonder what the hell did we do wrong when 20 years later he doesn’t give a damn about who gave birth to them.

Oh, it is us who hurt eachother! Like the old saying „Guns don’t hurt people! PEOPLE hurt PEOPLE!”. So it’s all about the art of surviving if you see your life like a war, but it’s never about a simple choice unless you are selfish and you are seriousely lacking self esteem.

your souls…your LIFE

On Marriage

Kahlil Gibran

” You were born together,
and together you shall be forevermore.
You shall be together when the white wings of death scatter your days.
Ay, you shall be together even in the silent memory of God.
But let there be spaces in your togetherness,
and let the winds of the heavens dance between you.
Love one another, but make not a bond of love:
Let it rather be a moving sea
between the shores of your souls.
Fill each other’s cup but drink not from one cup.
Give one another of your bread but eat not from the same loaf.
Sing and dance together and be joyous, but let each one of you be alone,
Even as the strings of a lute are alone
though they quiver with the same music.
Give your hearts, but not into each other’s keeping.
For only the hand of Life can contain your hearts.
And stand together yet not too near together:
For the pillars of the temple stand apart,
And the oak tree and the cypress grow not in each other’s shadow.”