I don’t know how many of you have ever played video games, but for those who have this post will be much easier to understand.
Why? Because video games have this option of saving a game from time to time and then loading it every time you need. In real life that doesn’t work quite so, but there is a „feature” you can save and to which you can always go back to.
That is YOURSELF!
Relationships are like video games: unless you invest in yourself and „SAVE” from time to time, a separation will undoubtedly send you back to zero. And in this case zero is that depression in which you question your value/ values, when you give up all the things you believed in for the impression of a relationship and when nothing around you seems good enough.
Single is not a status!!! Single is like loading the game! It’s back to yourself and all the things you have built within.
MYSELF comes from a self part that is mine and mine only. It’s that part that I have conquered or discovered, I have shaped and colored, I have improved… We all have the option to choose what we define ourSELVES through. But take my word for it that using a relation for this is not the best or smartest thing you can do.
So…you are not single or in a relationship. YOU are or not WHO YOU ARE! Single/ relationships are just fazes of a life time game!
So SAVE and LOAD until you reach your destination!
„In three words I can sum up everything I’ve learned about life: it goes on.”
For lives that hold
a solid ground,
and souls that yell
with silent sound,
I give away
a drop of light
to pour and shine
into the night.
” You were born together,
and together you shall be forevermore.
You shall be together when the white wings of death scatter your days.
Ay, you shall be together even in the silent memory of God.
But let there be spaces in your togetherness,
and let the winds of the heavens dance between you.
Love one another, but make not a bond of love:
Let it rather be a moving sea
between the shores of your souls.
Fill each other’s cup but drink not from one cup.
Give one another of your bread but eat not from the same loaf.
Sing and dance together and be joyous, but let each one of you be alone,
Even as the strings of a lute are alone
though they quiver with the same music.
Give your hearts, but not into each other’s keeping.
For only the hand of Life can contain your hearts.
And stand together yet not too near together:
For the pillars of the temple stand apart,
And the oak tree and the cypress grow not in each other’s shadow.”
Am vazut acest video cand eram in anul intai de facultate si inca de atunci rezoneaza in colturile constientului si, probabil, subcontientului meu.
In ultima vreme insa e din ce in ce mai prezent in ceea ce fac. Poate pentru ca am descoperit secretul „sunscreen” sau pentru ca e foarte realist si educa mai mult decat comportamente: educa perspective.
Merita urmarit atent si pana la final, dupa care astept comentariile voastre:
Video al carui mesaj rezuma multe dintre posturile mele pe blog.